Greg, when I did mine I used some ATF on the fittings and a little in the hose itself, I pushed it on until I could push no more then I gave it a good whack or two with a rubber mallet while holding the fitting in my hand, yes I hit my had a few times. I was also told to soak the ends of the hose in HOT water for a few minutes to let it soften and "grow" a bit. Good luck.
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