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« on: April 24, 2014, 10:53:15 PM »
Hi there.... I am one of the few girls on here.... So I thought I'd pipe in on this one ...
I can speak from experience, but in a diff way.... I am the step mom to my hubby's son and been in the pic since he was 2, and he's now 10. We have been through similar situations, only reverse the parent roles (us being the responsible side).
Here is what we have learned, via consulting attourneys etc... (And which will benefit you and mama) I agree 100% with Maloney! keep records of EVERYTHING. dates, times, visits, texts, emails, messages, phone calls, everything! And details of all said things also. Unfortunately for us, but great for you, we have learned it is extremely hard, almost next to impossible to take a child from a mother. If drugs are involved and can be proven then that's a diff story, but pretty much everything else doesn't matter.
With the sounds of this guys past with his baby girl, your girlfriend will have no worries proving him to be unfit. Also like someone else mentioned... ALWAYS play the nice-nice. Kill him with kindness, especially when he's throwing you guys under the bus.... Give him absolutely nothing that he can hold against you or throw out there as being crazy or out of control. And also as another said, this will most likely not be the first time of many of him trying this crap.... You and your girlfriend have a lot in your favor... Stay positive, patient, and always be the better people....
I understand what you are going through and how frustrating things can get.... Good luck.... 😊
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