So I know this is not Boat related but in the spirit of handing out awards (sorry Rod) I thought I would air my dirty laundry and issue the  "Worst Ex" Award or at least my nomination


So at the ripe old age of 21 I was married with a 3 year old daughter. Living in a sh*t hole of town called Santa Maria, California(not my choice, I am from So  Cal) Finally had enough of my Ex's crap and said that I had finally had enough.

So I very nicely helped her move out, yes I helped. That very night, she broke into to the house thru a window. So when I came home and found her there, next came some yelling and screaming and somehow I got her in the garage and deadbolted the door behind her(he he) So just after, she puts her shoulder into the door with me on the other side of it, so she comes through the door at me and I put up my hands and push her away from me(sware to god, I dont beat up women) So she falls against a door frame and hurts her arm(a bruise). So she leaves and a few minutes later I do to. About an hour later:  I am pulled over, taken out of the car at gun point and arrested for spousal abuse. Got to spend a nice weekend in a county jail.  Monday morning I go to court and the DA wont press any charges, so i am out, and gone. Went down to the OC for a while. Come home and moved all my sh$t to the OC.

So as the next year goes by I only get to see my daughter when I show up with the court order and the cops, and it sucks that her mom is such a piece of crap that I have to show up with cops in front of my daughter.  So one day my ex is gone, yup gone.

Over the next four years I find that she has lived in Hawaii and Florida, lots of different address.  On my Birthday 3 years ago I am looking online, as I always am for addresses and phone numbers and I find one that I havent seen before. So I call it and it rings a few times and someone answers.  It is the unmistakable sound of my ex's voice. So with as calm as I can I talk to her for a few minutes and ask to talk to my daughter. I talk to her on the phone for a while until she tells me that she has to go. 

A few days later I get a letter in the mail that says that the phone is in her new husbands name and that he doesnt want me calling "HIS" phone. What a piece of crap. about 2 weeks later the phone number is disconnected, go figure.

So about a month ago I search for my daughters name on myspace and a page comes up, so I send her a message. While waiting for a response I search for my ex on myspace, and lookie who has a new myspace page.  So I sent her a message.  And a few days later I get the response of someone who is still bitter after after all these years.

So in the last 3 weeks or so I have been talking to my daughter thru myspace almost everynight and I am heading out there on Tuesday or Wednesday for a few days to finally see my daughter after 8 years.

Isnt karma a mother fuc&er:

Her new husband ran off with a 23 year old stripper and she is back living in Santa Maria, Ca.

Beerjet, Thanks for the Karma!

Quite a thread OC2Vegas. You, as I, pick "winners". I could type about 5 pages on the first ex which has nothing on the second ex. I could write a series of books on the second ex. I'm not giving out any more info on her on this board than I am here and than I have already because quite honestly I can't laugh too much about it yet - it's only been about 4 years.  . Issue's.    Uncountable beer bottles to the back of my head, constantly stirring up sh!t with everyone in her life, coming at me with a steak knife with every intention of using it, just about ripping my under-arm off with her teeth, her driving at 85 mph with our son in the back seat - she let's go of the steering wheel so she could try to break my nose with her fist... uhmmm... helping her mom commit credit card fraud on me with my cradit cards and other personal info of mine. I sold everything I had except for the puter and a couch to get 50/50 of my son. I'm forgetting more than I remember. marcsrollin was there for me in a lot of it. OK. That's it for now. Can't type no more without         

let us know how meeting your daughter goes! thats crazyyyyy! i hope it works out though .

Lets see exes huh? I luckily didnt have kids but I can unload on this one.
   This divorce was over 8 years ago and it was ugly. We got married and her mom gave us 80k to buy an old fixer upper house out in the country. I poured 3 yearsr of labor into redoing the house and clearing 20 acres by hand! No tractor! Not having a house payment we ammassed a great deal of toys. When the divorce began she first filed a spousal abuse accusation and I was by chance in jail waiting that arraignment on our first court date. She couldnt have arranged it any better. The chareg was dropped because there was zero substantiation but nonetheless I had already missed the first court date. She likewise filed a protective order that kept me away from the home and all of my things. And yes I know that some people will say that I had to have done something in order to get a protective order against me but trust me the judge sits me down and says and I will quote " if I believe you and dont file the order and something happens to her, my career is over, however if I file the order and you really didnt do anything then you are the only one who loses!" he then tells me that the female activist groups are up his ass! so protective order it is. Well right off the bat they wanna come and get my guns, cause you cant have those if you are on a protective order. Lost a deposit on a 6k dollar Alaska hunting trip! WHy go if I cant even touch a gun?
  My credit was rotten when I married her so its all in her name and I was working construction for cash money so when she told the judge that I was a bum and didnt work for three years.........he bought it!. She got my truck, my boat,my jet skis,my motorcycle and ALL the proceeds in the sale of the house! Because she claimed that the 80k her mom gave us was a loan that had to be payed back!
  I drop her and run away with nothing and I do mean nothing! 4 years later I am about to get married a gain and my fiance gets an email from her warning her that I am this awful person! Luckily my fiance knew the entire story! Not a surprise one could the ex throw her! but the fact that she woudl do that the day before our wedding!!!!!
 Fast forward to this summer I have resubstatiated myself in the community and am a mortgage broker and I am doing ok. I contributed to a childrens education fun at a rodeo event and therefore get some company advertising some food, free booze, music etc. Guess who is a volunteer for the organization? Yep the ex. She sees me and immediatley tells the security to have me escorted out. Luckily I am friends with the president of the organization and I call him. He politley tells her that I am a 10k dollar contributer and that she is a volunteer and that if she wants to cause a scene that she is welcomed to leave and never return. SHE DOES! The spiteful bitch leaves!
  She totally devestated my life and still wasnt happy. She is a mean woman and continues to pop up here and there and cause waves. I found out that she sold my taylor jet with 20k in the heads alone for 200.00 to her friend! Yes 200.00!
 Beat that one if ya can!

The attorneys have a part in it but the activist groups that are able to threaten judges if they dont find according to their standards are to blame. That judge didnt hand out a just decision! He handed out a safe decision! That isnt his job! He is supposed to weigh the evidence. Punish the guys who do harm their wives or kill them more severly and you waont have to worry about the ones who re accused of it! Likewise pull a plato on them and any accusation in our court system that is found to be unsubstantiated reverts the same punishment that the accused woudl have gotten to the one who falsley accused! This shit woudl stop right quick!

way cool.....congrats man....i hope your relationship with her continues to grow from here on out.

glad to hear your visit went well, hopefully you will have many more to come, and the ex will realize what karma can do and change a little, for the benefit of your daughter

I just have to figure out a way to stop her mom from running back across the country....

there are holes in the Nevada desert, just a thought!

don't forget the hogs, they eat everything including the bones

don't forget the hogs, they eat everything including the bones

Anybody watch dirty jobs?  If you saw the episode with the pig farm....that place is like 10 miles from me.  Just a thought!