So... for the last 6 months, my wife and i have been renting a room at her grandparents' fairley huge home in San Juan that her 44 year old uncle also lives in. Her grandpa has been slowly getting sicker for the last few years. They have had care takers taking care of him for the last year and spent almost $55k just in caretakers last year (if that tells you how much money matters to them). They are now getting a "live in caretaker" to try and cut cost   This person will be moving into  the room that shares a Jack & Jill bathroom with us.


Friday, the uncle tells us that "we should probably start looking for places soon." Today he tells us " the caretaker is moving in April 1st and that we need to be out by April 1st!" 

Don't get me wrong, i have no problem moving into our own place (that was intentionally our plan, i was just holding out to try and buy a house). I just can't believe that they really exspect us to unexspectingly find a place to move into in 2 weeks. i know that legally i am supposed to get 30 days notice but i'm dealing with inlaws and don't want to start a family fight. i just don't understand why the caretaker is a nessecity. There are alot of elderly sick people that don't go and spend $55k a year for a live in care taker.

soooooo....... tonight i will be looking at places to live (rent) in south OC (mission viejo, lake forrest, laguna hills maybe irvine)

it just pisses me off, doing stuff under such short notice. don't know if i'll be on the water soon now