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Beaveretriever

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I just need to vent
« on: February 09, 2012, 02:25:27 pm »
As some of you know I have been going through a custody battle with my ex wife. She was trying to move to texas to follow her boyfriend. We had one kid together, my daughter Skylar. She is now 11. Some of you guys here on the boards have met my daughter and seen us together. Well after a 5 month litigation I lost. Today I was informed by a judge that my daughter will be moving to Texas in 10 days. The ex lied right through her teeth at every opportunity. We caught her in every single lie and still the court saw it in the best interest of my daughter Skylar to be ripped from me and moved to Texas. I was granted some visitation but nothing like what I have now. My daughter lives only 2 miles from me and I see her all the time. That is clearly going to change. I just thought I would vent here.

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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #1 on: February 09, 2012, 02:42:50 pm »
As some of you know I have been going through a custody battle with my ex wife. She was trying to move to texas to follow her boyfriend. We had one kid together, my daughter Skylar. She is now 11. Some of you guys here on the boards have met my daughter and seen us together. Well after a 5 month litigation I lost. Today I was informed by a judge that my daughter will be moving to Texas in 10 days. The ex lied right through her teeth at every opportunity. We caught her in every single lie and still the court saw it in the best interest of my daughter Skylar to be ripped from me and moved to Texas. I was granted some visitation but nothing like what I have now. My daughter lives only 2 miles from me and I see her all the time. That is clearly going to change. I just thought I would vent here.

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The beav

i have a friend who went through something similar.  he ended up moving to be closer to his kid.  my fiancee's dad ended up moving to wichita when she was like 13.  he calls her, skype's, and visits whenever possible.  just keep on trying to maintain that relationship.  if anything get a cell phone where she can call you whenever she wants, etc.  i dunno if its too late but if the court can put something in writing that allows her to have the cell phone so the mother cant monitor or stop her from communicating with you. 
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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #2 on: February 09, 2012, 03:11:59 pm »
dam bud!
i hope things get better! sorry your day was ruined!

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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #3 on: February 09, 2012, 03:14:24 pm »
that really sucks man . don't know what I'd do if I couln't talk to my daughter ,hang in there and take every advantage you can to be with her
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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #4 on: February 09, 2012, 04:30:57 pm »
That's some shit, I hate hearing horrible things like that.

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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #5 on: February 09, 2012, 04:38:54 pm »
Dave.....reading this made my stomach turn. The recent last few times I've seen you, you told me a few of the details of the trial and I'm floored that any judge in the world would have gave that judgement based on what youve told me. I am terribly sorry to read this and cant even imagine the frustration youre going through right now. We're all here for ya if theres anything at all you need.

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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #6 on: February 09, 2012, 05:28:28 pm »
I'm sorry to hear that as well..  The only ones who win in a custody battle are the attorney's.
It's the children that suffer the most.  :thumbdown:
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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #7 on: February 09, 2012, 05:32:47 pm »
That is sad news. Try to keep your chin up if you can, I have a few friends going through this same deal and it never turns out the way it should.
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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #8 on: February 09, 2012, 05:46:44 pm »
Although I don't know you I am really sorry this happened to you. I went through the same thing only difference was i was the kid. Hopefully something will work out in your favor. Ill keep you in my prayers.

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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #9 on: February 09, 2012, 05:57:54 pm »
im sorry! i too am going thur a custudy battle. my x just wont leave enough alone i got a 50/50 but she is now fighting to get that removed!  hate to say it but maybe you need to follow her! thats your kid man!   money cars  a house does not compare to your own kids!  good luck in what ever you do!   oh  you will now have to fight her thur a texas courts make sure you contact them soon!
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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #10 on: February 09, 2012, 06:59:35 pm »
i am very sorry for the hell you a going thru i no the hurt  sucks best thing to do is try to keep your head up  and always stay in touch and let her know that you will always be her only dad good luck
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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #11 on: February 09, 2012, 10:09:14 pm »
THIS IS NOT RIGHT!!!! it is unfare 2 take a child fom a loving parent ...no matter what....
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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #12 on: February 09, 2012, 10:10:16 pm »
Dammit Dave,

This sucks.  :thumbdown:

About the only thing I have to say is, no matter what, make sure your little girl knows how you feel and see her whenever humanly possible...

Really sorry to hear this bud...You got hosed IMHO. :banghead:

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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #13 on: February 10, 2012, 09:19:53 am »
BS
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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #14 on: February 10, 2012, 12:58:48 pm »
This is Bull shit!!!!!!!! :mad: I dont know how anyone in their right mind can look at this situation and feel it is the right decision to allow her to be removed and taken away from everything she has and has known her whole life. Hang in there Brosiff. It pisses me of that they can just sit there and lie like that with us sitting there what goes around comes around.
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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #15 on: February 10, 2012, 01:08:46 pm »
I would not be so quick to move to Texas unless you have family already there.  There is a good chance things will not work out for a variety of reasons, and the ex and daughter will end up having to move somewhere else.  At 11 your daughter is not going to forget you, and if your ex tries to "run you down" it will probably have the effect that she wants to be with you even more.  She has seen that you were willing to fight for her in court.
IMHO I would just take a wait and see attitude, and be ready to step in if (and when) things go badly in TX.  I hope things turn around for you and your daughter sooner rather than later.
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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #16 on: February 10, 2012, 06:36:50 pm »
I kinda had the same thing happen with my oldest, taken to North Carolina, although my younger two stayed with me in a separate court case. No telling or seeing common sense or rationality with a judge or the court system. Mine all went down in Ohio thank gawd, cuz here? well, lets just suffice it to say in Arizona, unless you're a member of the Latter Day assmunchers, you're pretty much screwed in every court from traffic, to family and criminal. Most every judge here in Arizona is Mormon, which is LDS speak for More Money (for Me, Man)............You're screwed if you ain't a member of the club. This is simple fact here. 

Court system aside, listen to John and don't make the same mistakes I have in alienating my oldest over the grudge with her mother. The one that suffered was my daughter in all that and in the end the ex won through manipulating my anger. She's about to make me a grampa, and I haven't seen her since my wife's funeral. Talked to her many times, but that ain't the same. Keep in touch with Skye. She will learn the truth on her own eventually.

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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #17 on: February 10, 2012, 06:57:48 pm »
im speechless, >:(

stay strong brother
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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #18 on: February 10, 2012, 08:33:14 pm »
sorry to hear that bud,my boy is turning 2 next week and i couldnt be with out him for longer then a river trip.just remember venting is better then shooting up a mc donalds or some shit
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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #19 on: February 11, 2012, 09:59:39 pm »
Hang in brother.  I feel for ya.
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Re: I just need to vent
« Reply #20 on: February 15, 2012, 08:13:31 pm »
Just doesn't seem right. :mad: Sorry to hear that, lots of good advice above.
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