Ken and Kim,
I am not sure why I feel the need to be there at the service tomorrow but I do. Two years ago we lost my niece, at 17 she died in her sleep. After months the coroner gave up trying to figure out why. She was a special girl, the perfect kid. Over 700 people came to the funeral and people are still posting on her MySpace and FB sites. Yesterday my best friend called and tells me that HIS 19 yr old nephew died in his sleep. To the family he was everything.
With support and love for each other, the Nelson family will get through this, I know it. There is so much positive energy and prayer directed towards your family right now that that is the only possible outcome. It will seem very dark right now, but in time the pain will diminish and you will be able to focus on what lies ahead for you. Love your spouse and kids all the more, laugh and enjoy everyday with them and keep yourselves open to the good things that life will have to offer you. I know things are awfully painful right now, but it is remarkable how at times like these you will find strength and love that you had no idea was there. I will continue to pray for anyone who has lost a child, and please know you are not alone. John