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BIG JOHNSON

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Man's best friend
« on: February 05, 2013, 09:39:37 PM »
I'm left with a ragged leather collar with sharpened stainless steel spikes, ID tags and 15 years of good times and memories.

Some little stray miniature pinscher followed me home on my Schwinn when I , was 12 years old. I couldn't keep him. Pops wouldn't let me take him home because he had just lost a dog after 18 years.

For a week after I first met this dog  we were stuck together. After school, I'd come home, grab my bike and I knew I'd find him at the continuation school cafeteria. They'd always feed him leftovers so that's where he hung out.

I was fuct cause I couldn't take him home but I was gonna keep him for someday. A friend let me keep him in his backyard a long as I fed him and picked up his shit.

For two months I rode my bike to Petsmart every day after school and bought a $0.59 can of cheap dog food, brought it over fed him and cruised the neighborhood letting him follow met on the bike. He was always right on my ass, got his nose burnt on the tioga comp III a few times from following too close.

I bitched and bitched and bitched about bringing him home so he could sleep in my bed. Finally, 13th birthday came around and I was expecting some cool gifts. Mom says, "I'll drive you to go get the dog food." I thought, shi t, that's cool. She pulls up at my buddy's house where he was kept... I'm confused at this point.. She said, "Your father and I talked about it and decided you can bring him home for your birthday present."

Holy crap, went and grabbed his ass  jumped in the car and bawled my eyes out on the way home. He licked every tear off. I had the best years with that dog same bed. We were an item.

I moved a few miles away and he didn't adjust to the move, do he had to be with my parents. Saw him and sat on the couch nearly every day for the last 4 years. Health went down hill for him, he was losing to much weight and starting to stumble around. I had to make a decision before it was too late and he would stuffer. This was a dog that would catch a small tennis ball while doing a backflip... He had become a shell of a once vigorous animal. Mom (who had become severely attached) wasn't supportive at first. I set a date and time last week to let my dog go with dignity.

The same woman who drive me home with the same dog while I cried as a teenager, drove me to the vet tonight. While I cried.

I had to keep it together somewhat so he stayed calm. Hand fed him a double quarter pounder with extra cheese piece by piece all the while on the examining table.

Everything went as smooth as it can. Great staff at the VCA in La Mirada, they were calm and good with him, no yelps plus they let me hold him as he went.

Sorry for the long ass post. Just letting you know an 11lb stray mutt can bring a man to his knees.


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Re: Man's best friend
« Reply #1 on: February 05, 2013, 09:54:19 PM »
Loving story, sorry to hear about losing your best friend.  I deal with VCA (website, etc) so I know you were in good hands.  You did the right thing in making the hardest decision ever, and ending the suffering.  He's up in heaven doing backflips with tennis balls again. 
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« Reply #2 on: February 05, 2013, 10:07:45 PM »
Sorry to hear that man i really am. I'm facing the same decision right now Just haven't been man enough To do it. You did the right thing.
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Re: Man's best friend
« Reply #3 on: February 05, 2013, 10:23:38 PM »
wow sorry for your loss.I have had to do the same thing and it flat out sucks .just remember all the good times and take comfort in you did the best you could for him
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Re: Man's best friend
« Reply #4 on: February 06, 2013, 02:09:35 AM »
Sorry to hear that man i really am. I'm facing the same decision right now Judy haven't been man enough To do it. You did the right thing.
I did all the research and reading I could do on the subject. I will tell you, though you may not want to hear, you and the dog are better off doing this a day early than a day late. I've learned that dogs have a rather high threshold for pain and they adjust to it daily. Just because they're not whimpering or crying in pain doesn't mean they're not IN pain.

It first crossed my mind in November... I had enough reason to take him in, but I wasn't ready. That was a mistake. He didn't hardly recognize me anymore but I had plenty of affection and treats to give so he was always happy.

I think back to November, he hasn't had any happy times or feel-good days since and it was only me that made him endure until now.

You'll know when its time, they usually will not go on their own.

Before taking him in, I let him outside and he pissed and shat in the neighbors yard which made me chuckle, because they are assholes. Then I thought shoot, maybe he'll be fine with some meds and good to go for another year or so.

When we were at the vet and I took him out of the blanket to out him on the scale under doctors orders, I realized he was frail, weak and not capable if going home. No matter what you think, go to the vet and get ann assessment and opinion. Though I knew what my best friend needed, I STILL HAD TO HEAR A PROFESSIONAL SAY, NOW IS THE TIME...

Super fuct, but I may sleep better knowing he ain't hurting rather than worrying about him.



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Re: Man's best friend
« Reply #5 on: February 06, 2013, 02:15:55 AM »
wow sorry for your loss.I have had to do the same thing and it flat out sucks .just remember all the good times and take comfort in you did the best you could for him

Thanks for taking the time to read, Gord. You must know then.

The woman has been taking about getting a dog or two for a while now, just don't think I'll be ready or willing for a long ass time.

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« Reply #6 on: February 06, 2013, 02:20:38 AM »
Loving story, sorry to hear about losing your best friend.  I deal with VCA (website, etc) so I know you were in good hands.  You did the right thing in making the hardest decision ever, and ending the suffering.  He's up in heaven doing backflips with tennis balls again.


Thanks, Ka0tyk. I appreciate the response.

I'm going to leave a good review for VCA in La Mirada Yelp.



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Re: Man's best friend
« Reply #7 on: February 06, 2013, 07:07:25 AM »
Sarted tearing up a little. i love my dogs.

sorry for your loss.
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« Reply #8 on: February 06, 2013, 07:13:48 AM »
Sarted tearing up a little. i love my dogs.

sorry for your loss.



I did tear up
So sorry for your loss
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« Reply #9 on: February 06, 2013, 07:38:36 AM »
Your passion for that dog is like any other dog lover, sorry to hear of your loss.  Most of us will be in this same situation one day if not already and I hate to think of the day.
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« Reply #10 on: February 06, 2013, 07:59:32 AM »
Sarted tearing up a little. i love my dogs.

sorry for your loss.

Same here . . . Sorry for your loss
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« Reply #11 on: February 06, 2013, 09:36:29 AM »
Its probably one of the worst things I have every been through, and it will be even worse with my boy now when the time comes.  I thought about posting one of those rainbow bridge poems that are really nice but those just make me tear up more.  The important thing to remember is you saved this dog and gave him a way better life than he would have had normally, he was forever grateful for that.  Hold your head high.  Sorry again for your loss.
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« Reply #12 on: February 06, 2013, 10:19:13 AM »
 your loss hits home to all of us that have stood in a vets operating room and had to make the most painful decision surrounded by crying family members praying you'll make a different one.... in your head it's the right one,  but in your heart....         I'm sorry for your loss
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« Reply #13 on: February 07, 2013, 11:53:48 AM »
sorry bro thats the hardest thing when u r an animals parent
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Re: Man's best friend
« Reply #14 on: February 07, 2013, 01:01:52 PM »
No more pain anyway. Vet said he likely had a brain tumor or some other neurological ailment that was effecting his eyesight and screwing things up. Its all good now, and he'd be thankful for not suffering today.

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Re: Man's best friend
« Reply #15 on: February 07, 2013, 10:57:54 PM »
I'm left with a ragged leather collar with sharpened stainless steel spikes, ID tags and 15 years of good times and memories.

Some little stray miniature pinscher followed me home on my Schwinn when I , was 12 years old. I couldn't keep him. Pops wouldn't let me take him home because he had just lost a dog after 18 years.

For a week after I first met this dog  we were stuck together. After school, I'd come home, grab my bike and I knew I'd find him at the continuation school cafeteria. They'd always feed him leftovers so that's where he hung out.

I was fuct cause I couldn't take him home but I was gonna keep him for someday. A friend let me keep him in his backyard a long as I fed him and picked up his shit.

For two months I rode my bike to Petsmart every day after school and bought a $0.59 can of cheap dog food, brought it over fed him and cruised the neighborhood letting him follow met on the bike. He was always right on my ass, got his nose burnt on the tioga comp III a few times from following too close.

I bitched and bitched and bitched about bringing him home so he could sleep in my bed. Finally, 13th birthday came around and I was expecting some cool gifts. Mom says, "I'll drive you to go get the dog food." I thought, shi t, that's cool. She pulls up at my buddy's house where he was kept... I'm confused at this point.. She said, "Your father and I talked about it and decided you can bring him home for your birthday present."

Holy crap, went and grabbed his ass  jumped in the car and bawled my eyes out on the way home. He licked every tear off. I had the best years with that dog same bed. We were an item.

I moved a few miles away and he didn't adjust to the move, do he had to be with my parents. Saw him and sat on the couch nearly every day for the last 4 years. Health went down hill for him, he was losing to much weight and starting to stumble around. I had to make a decision before it was too late and he would stuffer. This was a dog that would catch a small tennis ball while doing a backflip... He had become a shell of a once vigorous animal. Mom (who had become severely attached) wasn't supportive at first. I set a date and time last week to let my dog go with dignity.

The same woman who drive me home with the same dog while I cried as a teenager, drove me to the vet tonight. While I cried.

I had to keep it together somewhat so he stayed calm. Hand fed him a double quarter pounder with extra cheese piece by piece all the while on the examining table.

Everything went as smooth as it can. Great staff at the VCA in La Mirada, they were calm and good with him, no yelps plus they let me hold him as he went.

Sorry for the long ass post. Just letting you know an 11lb stray mutt can bring a man to his knees.
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Sorry to hear about your loss.  It is amazing, yet sad, how much we become attached to our pets. I still have fond memories of the Boxer I grew up with.
Max was 16 years old when he left me. I was 16 years old as well.  We grew up together.  We were best friends and when I misbehaved all I had to do was go into the back yard and Max would not let my parents get near me. I will never forget the eye to eye contact that Maxamillion The Great The Third  and I had when the Vet gave him that lethal injection. For 47 years I have never had another dog, best friend. I feel your pain.  God Bless
 
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Re: Man's best friend
« Reply #16 on: February 08, 2013, 12:15:07 AM »
Sorry to hear about your loss.  It is amazing, yet sad, how much we become attached to our pets. I still have fond memories of the Boxer I grew up with.
Max was 16 years old when he left me. I was 16 years old as well.  We grew up together.  We were best friends and when I misbehaved all I had to do was go into the back yard and Max would not let my parents get near me. I will never forget the eye to eye contact that Maxamillion The Great The Third  and I had when the Vet gave him that lethal injection. For 47 years I have never had another dog, best friend. I feel your pain.  God Bless
 
You know, I was wanting this thread to go away so I can function right for a while and not tear up at work. I had a similar relationship with my dog as you did with Max.

I held him close and strong and didn't fall apart until he went limp and relaxed. Then family and the Dr. disappeared and I felt like my whole childhood and early adult life died with him, don't remember how long I laughed and cried and talked to him until I covered him with his worn out blanket before exiting. He was always there throughout my life so far. Disappointments, achievements, happy, sad as hell. He knew.

Bastard used to wake me up every day, lay on my chest  stretch the front paws out and rake his nails down from my neck to my gut. Tail wag like, "what are we doing before school?"

A Fuck ing stray ass dog that followed me home as a stupid kid.. Damn, must sound crazy like my grandmother that has full on conversations with her dog.

There will never be a replacement, no one will stare at the bottom of the door when I leave.

Dave, that is one clean boat by the way.

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