About the only things that kill the module (a photo cell and an LED) is voltage problems, which I believe you had and bad grounds, which you may have experienced when you had the loose charging wire on the alternator.
For the most part, not really shocked that a Unilite failed. Maybe give a Pertronix a shot. They use hall effect technology and are much tougher.
GT
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