What motor? I always run a ford type solenoid with a gm type starter for exactly that reason. I had the gm starter stay on (454) and engaged till I unhooked the battery, at the lake. that hasn't happend since. A 460 ford that has the solenoid on the starter has another solenoid inline from the factory (Hardin marine). As far as the flexplate, Ive had good luck swapping them out with no problems, but the motors were mostly stock.