IMHO anything above 160*F is too hot.
Basically, depending on the total set up, with the boat idling at the dock, turn the valve toward closed at idle until the temperature starts to rise. I like to see about 155* at idle for a start.
As the engine speed increases the temperature should fall fairly quickly. On a Berkeley pump, the temp should be around 120-130* if everything is sized correctly.
Unless the engine has an automotive style water pump on the front, stay below 155*, there is NOTHING circulating the water within the cooling jackets on a jet. So 170*F at the gauge means that many areas in the block will be in excess of 220*...
GT