It is definatly a reflection of whats NOT at home . Guidance ? I have a freind who really stayed on his kids and his daughter is straight as an arrow , workin , going to CAL POLY , and his boy works harder than just about anyone I know . That kid never has to be told to do the lawn or any kind of yard work or anything . Kid says he likes it . My buddy always tells me , " It's nice , I just come home and everthing is done. " he sometimes has to tell him slow it down , he doesn't want to burn the kid out early .
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