The first thing I've gotta do is unravel this ball of yarn, find out what role everyone is playing, and then figure out the best course of action to take. This is going to be very intense. It's going to be full time, but we're gunna get started.
Now what we have here is a love hate situation. You can be candid about the problem... I dont care, but I am going to be candid with you to become a part of the solution. There are going to be things that are going to be hard to hear, but I think its important to hear what I have to say, then I want you to react to that.
I just want to make an observation here that I think is important to me. The shrink in me has listened to this and I have studied this young man in other posts and have seen how he conducts himself and what he does...
Think what kind of unprincipled individual you would have to be knowing that there are items such as your pets, living quarters and Barbara Stresand CD's that are at stake here, reguarless of the long lovin relationship you have built over time on these forums.
There is a expression where I come from - 'arguing on the internet is gods way of saying that you are still retarded if you win'.
-Dr Phil
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