First off.....
You had the the crank ground undersized, not oversized. Oversized bearings accept an undersized crank. You said you're using measuring tools I stead of plasti guage....what size is the crank? Did they truely take it .030 under or did they take it .028 or .029 under?
The "x" in x bearings indicate an X-tra .001" of clearance.....which based on your numbers, may still be on the tight side.
Always check the work of the machine shop....my experience has been that more often than not, they fawk everything up.
There are specs for rod and main bores withoutthe bearings in yet....confirm that they didn't fawk those up. While you're at it, check cam to crank distance and make sure they didn't move the mains too far up in the block....measure this at the front and the back to make sure they bored the mains straight. Then do the math and see who screwed up what up....clearly, something isn't right