Did your engine builder tell you that you need to start your motor when you take it out of the water to blow it out? If so, that's horse shit. The only water your pushing out of the engine is what is puddled in the exhaust, and what little you get out of the block from the impeller acting as a fan blowing a small amount of air through the water fill line. Your water is getting in the oil while the motor is running on the water, not from sitting on the trailer. Sounds like either a snow job or he doesn't understand boat motors.