When I talked to the dude, before I got SCJB involved, and I offered my heads to the guy, he was in tears. Better than that, when I got off the phone my day & serenity level went thru the roof. If he is running a hustle, that is between him & God and I have no part of that. But if he isnt, a great thing is taking place right here right now! In my opinion, he isnt running a hustle and i think what we are doing is pretty frickin great. If not for him, for us. Take a step back and see how great it was to say, "I'll help this guy, I feel his pain".
I have 3 boys and motorcycles across the board. I have been put in situations (or put my self there) and was in need of money fast for mortgage, utilities etc... and not ONCE did I think to try to explain to any of my sons why I am selling THEIR motorcycle to pay for my stuff. I believe that God will provide, and he always did.
Dont look now, maybe he is providing as we speak!
Sorry for the PTL lecture, it is just how I feel about it.