I see this whole thing different-
Its all about customer service, and ONLY customer service. Always do what the customer wants, as a business owner myself, the customer is always right, whether I think they wrong or right is irrelevent, they are payin the bill. I have advised the client in one way or another, and even argued with an engineer or 2, but a bad attitude gets you nowhere in business.
As far as the finger tats, I wouldn't do it myself, (get them), but to each there own.
These kids make chioces, not all are good choices...
Daniel