my questions are #1 after the pump boys left they simply set the lids back down if they arent sealed wont rain water leach in thru the soil?Tommy, get some Henry's roofing mastik and re-seal the lids where they meet the tank, this will also help keep the stink down.
also I've heard about seperating wash machine grey water drain away from the septicExcellent idea, I've done them for people before, we usually dig a large hole, put about a 12" of 2" drain rock on the bottom, take a 55 gal drum and punch it full of holes, fill this with 1" to 2" drain rock mix, run your discharge hose to the drum, bury the drum about 12-18" above and on the sides with 2" drain rock and cover with soil, the rocks break up the soap, lint, etc and the water leaches out into the soil, no harm, no foul.
will it hurt to make ann above ground "stand pipe" so's I can dump my Camper? (nows the time) You'd be silly not to do it, find the inlet side of your septic, assuming it's 4" you're gonna need a 4"X4"X3" "combo" fitting, cut this in, run the 3" to wherever you want your camper dump, give it 1/4" per foot of slope, add a threaded female adapter and plug and you're home free.
does that bacteria sh*t from the hardware store you dump in help with septic "life" Yes it does, between that and running your washing machine into the gravel pit, you'll extend not only the life of the thing, but also the time between services from the shit sucker guys. If you can find it use Hercules Products;
Cloroben SEPTIC-FLOWâ„¢
Use to keep septic system in peak condition. Concentrated liquid bacterial additive improves waste degradation throughout entire septic system. Each ounce of septic flow contains billions of super-active microorganisms. Keeps bacterial population at optimum levels in septic systems. Performs over a wide variety of conditions - temperature and pH variations or the presence of household cleaners and disinfectants. Regular use reduces back-ups and odors while keeping septic systems clean and free flowing. Helps prevent drain field failure.
I know there is a plumbing supply house in Paso, at least there used to be, go there and tell them what you want, if they don't have it, they can get it in a day. Here's what the bottle looks like;

Good luck, if you need anything else, give me a call, I'm only an hour and 45 away.
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